The Slow And Sexy Kiss

The kiss is a stamp of your love. It is a way of showing your love, your care, and your affections to your partner. While you kiss the tension in your lip should neither be overtly tight or too loose. If it is too loose, it will look frivolous and lazy and if you are too tight it could sense your nervousness and self consciousness.

In a humorous note, kissing is like posting an application at the top for the position at the base. Don’t look at kissing as a route towards excellent sex. Kissing by itself is an act of pleasure which may or may not lead to sex.

Let's look at the basic kiss: See that your lips are moist. You need to get your lips wet by running your tongue once over them before you kiss. Stand close to your partner. As your lips get closer, incline your head slightly to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. See the direction in which your partner is tilting her head and you can tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Ideally your nose should touch her cheek as your lips make contact.

When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open up. Open your mouth slightly and place your lips gently over her lips. Move your lips in a slow circular motion or just leave them still and suck the lower lips gently and succulently.

Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. When you close your eyes you are concentrating on the pleasure of being intimate with your partner’s lips. You can look directly at her eyes as you kiss or break the kiss, but the process of kiss should be savored with closed eyes as you ‘feel’ the pleasurable sensations with your eyes closed.

While kissing, you can put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other against the middle of their back. You can cup her face in your hands, put them around their waist, put them around your partner’s neck, hold her upper or lower arms or run your fingers through her hair.

If you are nervous about the first kiss and would like to go for a ‘care for you a lot’ or ‘miss you’ kiss rather than the erotic kiss, then you can go for the ‘closed kisses’. Here instead of opening your lips, you keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know that you respect her boundaries but still you love her and feel that she is one special person in your life.

In the French kiss, the tongue has a more considerable role, than the lips which is why you part your lips slightly. Once you have started kissing, you should slip your tongue in hers or vice versa. Don’t let your tongue go limp but play it around hers or playfully her tongue out with yours. Push her tongue back into yours and so on. Tongue wrestle playfully. Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of hers. Repeat her actions if she moves her tongue differently. Play tango with her tongue. If she flicks her tongue over yours, or if she thrusts her tongue inside your mouth, repeat the same action.

The romantic kiss: When your lips meet, keep them parted slightly and press gently against your partner’s lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so that your nose does not get in the way. The next step is intention. Give a slight peck on the lips and move away. Don’t move in haste, drift away slowly all the while holding her hands and look deep into her eyes.

The passionate kiss: If it is a more intimate kiss, then linger your lips around hers for a while. Then suck the upper lip and the lower lip. Again the intensity of the kiss should be decided by your comfort level. Having tested her lips, you can explore further-just lick them together and slightly caress the areas around her mouth or as the sexologists call it, oral region. The kiss value can be enhanced by devouring a chocolate or any other succulent fruit. Keep a piece of chocolate in your mouth and keep on transferring it to her mouth and back again till the chocolate melts and you are madly sucking each other’s tongue.

The perfect kiss: The perfect kiss starts out slowly and picks up as you become involved. A good kiss will flow, it does not stand and it does not end abruptly. Each peck has to be relished and enjoyed. Each kiss should be gentle and easy. Caress her face or give a gentle hug. It will be one of the pleasurable experiences you will have. Lean over to smell your partner’s hair. The moment the tip of your nose touches her hair, kiss your partner’s head. Gently go to the ear. Nibble the rim of the ear with your lips and breathe gently. Purr in her ears. Utter sexy sweet nothings. Switch to the neck. Plunge into the nape and gently bite the skin there. With a series of little bites, make your way to the corner of the lips. Lift your lips slightly away and zero in.

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Simple Romance Tips For Guys - Win Her Heart All Over Again

When it comes to affairs of the heart, one of the most common questions that men and women ask is, how can I be more romantic?

Women adore romance and the smart man knows that even the most masculine of males will benefit from being romantic every now and then. There's nothing that turns a woman on more than a macho man with a flair for romance. Even simple gestures like cooking a romantic dinner, surprising her with flowers or taking the time in your busy day to show her some appreciation are enough to touch her heart.

This list offers some suggestions on how men can be romantic towards their partners without that much effort.

(1) Be thoughtful every day
It could be something as simple as offering her a cup of coffee the moment she wakes up or bringing her a surprise like chocolates or candy when you get home. You could even write her a love note and put it in her bag before she goes to work. All women love romantic surprises, no matter how small.

(2) Make her a toast
Out of the blue, make a toast to her over dinner and tell her something that you adore about her, then drink to it. You don't have to be drinking wine or champagne - a glass of orange juice or water will do. It's the gesture and the message of your toast that counts.

(3) Compile a photo album
Regularly snap photos of your life together, not only of your special moments but your everyday activities as well. Then put them together in a photo album and surprise her. This is something she will enjoy for many years to come. Oh, and remember to catch her best side!

(4) Celebrate all your anniversaries
List down all your special anniversaries together and celebrate each one. Of course, the most important of these are your yearly anniversary and the time you first fell in love. Try to celebrate other anniversaries as well, such as the first time you met or your first kiss. It doesn't have to be lavish. Even a simple card or a hand-written letter will make a great romantic impression.

(5) Have regular physical contact
This does not refer to sex alone but to simple gestures as well, such as kissing her goodbye when you leave for work and when you return at the end of the day. You could volunteer to give her a back rub or massage her feet at the end of a tiring day. The power of touch is a compelling thing, so make it work for you.

(6) Communicate your feelings
Tell your woman about your day, about how you felt about certain things and whether you are feeling stressed or tired. Don't worry, they will not hold that against you. In fact, your partner will appreciate your honesty and it will make them feel like a significant part of your life. They may even make an effort to cheer you up and make you feel better.

(7) Look good for her
It's funny that we sometimes dress up for business meetings or for total strangers but we rarely extend the same courtesy to those who matter the most. Make it a point to look good for your woman and make sure you're wearing her favorite cologne.

Tips To Be A Great Kisser

Sometimes you feel that you are head over heels in love for her. However, sometimes you doubt your feeling. So, how do you kiss someone whom you like, but you are not sure about? The kiss in this situation should be a combination of short but sweet. This is a flirtatious way of showing your affection to her, in a hugging sort of way. Try to hold her hand or put your arms around her when you kiss her. Though you don't French Kiss, make your intentions obvious by opening your mouth slightly during the brief period of intimacy. The kiss should last a good number of 7-8 seconds though anybody would be a fool to count the seconds while kissing. However the point being forth across is that the kissing should not be longer than she expects.

You could have a crush on someone. She is giving you the subtle hints and you can bet on your eyeballs that she feels the same way for you. The kiss of this kind has a lot of romantic suspense element in it. There is a strong attraction towards a person you don't know that well. When you get to kiss her, do not go to the area of French Kissing, but make sure that your kisses are little wet and slurpy. You should begin your kisses with gentle closed mouth pecks and move on to some sweet inviting kisses, sizzling but not yet steamy. Don't involve your tongue. Keep your mouth open during the kiss. You could preferably shower a row of kisses on her. You don't have to just kiss on the lips. You could kiss on her cheeks, and forehead too as an expression of love. But when you are kissing on the lips, make sure that you have your arms around her and your kisses are more on the softer side. Try not to kiss too long, because very soon hormones will go on an over-drive and you will find yourself making love to her. Many a budding relationship have lost their charm or died quickly because of making out too early in the relationship before the individuals really to get to know each other perfectly. Your crush should not feel used, the kiss should be a sweet thing for her to cherish. So end the kiss at the right time before things get hot to handle. You should hang around with your crush after the kiss or jive with her if you have just kissed her before the party.

You like someone as a friend. She is so cute and bubbly, and oh such a caring friend. You just can't wait kissing her but then you don't want to send wrong signals in the group. The choice of kiss you shower on her depends on your chemistry with her. You can either give an innocent peck on her cheek or kiss her with your lips. Use close mouthed kisses. Keep your kisses fun-filled and flirtatious. To banish those stupid speculations, see that you tell her that it is such a fun to be her friend after the kiss is over. A hug after the kiss would underline your friendliness and attachment to her.

Consider that you have just started dating someone. This is not your first date and you have kissed her before. She is no more a crush, the relationship is developing. Make sure that you hold her real close, almost cuddling her in your arms when you kiss her. Begin kissing the same as you used to do in the past. Stroke her hair or hold her hips. You can French kiss her, for the first time now. If this is something that she may not find comfortable, even at this stage then you could for the Canadian version of the French kiss, also called, as Quebec kiss. This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the French kiss with sparse amount of tongue kissing. End the kiss with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead. After the kiss is over, talk to her. Hold her hands and talk about how marvelous the kiss was, and how she made you feel. Talk a little more and then lean toward and give another quick kiss to her lips.

Suppose you are going steady with someone. You are already in a relationship. You have kissed her many a times, have even made out with her. Here is the best part to graduate to variety in kissing and erotica. Explore with your kisses. Experiment the depths of sensuality is the way I would put it. Kissing under mistletoe will always have its sweet charm. Most of the couples forget the element of kissing and smooching and they would bypass that part to indulge in sexual activity. Kissing still reigns as the best part in foreplay, for most women. It is mentally stimulating and soul-enriching for them. Put a lot of passion and fire in your kisses. Be a man and shower her body with wet delicious kisses. When you French kiss, make sure that you tease her with your tongue. Bring a lot of variety in your kisses. Experiment with food. You could nibble on a piece of chocolate and share with your lover. You can take slow sip from the champagne flute and then kiss her. She will gently suck the champagne from your mouth. She should curl her into a tube once the kiss has begun, so that you can suck the entire end of her tongue to get the champagne. This is just one of the sexciting tips in kissing. There are a lot of tips for kissing given in books and online for experimental kisses. Copy them or invent your own!

Keep The Passion Alive In Your Relationship

All couples enter into marriage with the expectation that their passion for each other will endure forever. We believe the statistic that one out of two marriages in the United States ends up in divorce will not somehow apply to us.

All long-term relationships go through a variety of phases. Unless you want to be one of the millions of couples who are stuck in leading dull and exciting lives you must decide to work on giving your marriage the attention it deserves. It is possible to keep the flames of passion alive.

In the beginning, passionate feelings and romantic gestures seemed to flow without much effort. As time goes on, we settle into routines and many couples forget to do the things that keep their passion alive. You have to be proactive. You must make an effort to stay connected. You must make up your mind that you will love your spouse. It is not something that is just going to happen.

If you want to have a passionate relationship then you need to invest your time in your spouse. I do not believe that we forget how to be passionate towards the one we love. We just do not make it our priority.

However, in case I need to jog our memory, I suggest you pull out photographs of when you and your spouse first met. Study your expression. How did you look at him? How did you talk to her? Could you listen to her for hours? Did you comfort him if he was discouraged? Remember how you carried yourself. Remember how you used to drive twenty minutes out of your way to see her for five minutes. Once you have recaptured these memories then make a commitment to live your today's with your spouse in this same manner.

Let me share some more strategies on how you can keep the flames of passion alive:

1) Plan a special day together for just the two of you. Perhaps take a day off work to do so.
2) Be playful. Laugh together.
3) Write a love letter to your spouse. Make it a little unpredictable. Say things you might not ordinarily say.

4) Take walks together. Consider a walk on a moonlit night.
5) Take turns initiating affection so that it does not always fall under the responsibility of the same partner.
6) Go on a picnic.

7) Go to a romantic restaurant from time to time, not always to a family buffet.
8) Have candlelight dinners at home.
9) Watch romantic movies.
10) Go on a weekend getaway.
11) Hold hands.

12) Hold your spouse in such a way that he/she knows you care.
13) Slow dance to music.

14) Send your wife flowers for no other reason than to let her know you love her. (If your wife pays the bills, pay for the flowers at the florist yourself. Do not let the bill come home for her to have to write a check for her own flowers.

You might say, "But Mark, we have children and we are constantly on the go." Here are some strategies you can implement:

1) Make sure the children go to bed at a decent hour so you will have time together alone.
2) If you have teenagers, plan Saturday morning dates when they tend to sleep in.

3) A date does not have to mean dinner and a movie. A date can be anything that gives you an opportunity to concentrate on each other. From my experience, a standard date night does not work well for couples with children.

4) Create a romantic atmosphere in your home. This may be as simple as lighting candles or dimming the lights.
5) Always give your spouse a goodbye hug and kiss before leaving in the morning.

6) When you return home, always greet your spouse first, even though the children will run to the door first.
7) Say, "I love you " often.

8) Save some of your best self each day for your spouse. Do not give them the leftovers.
9) Look at old photographs and reminisce together.

10) Respect your spouse even when you disagree. Never belittle your spouse, whether or not others are around.

If you want good health, you must eat right and exercise. If you want a marriage that embraces passion, you must take the time to enjoy the company of the person you love. I believe that passion can be recaptured and grow to unimaginable dimensions. Decide to be a passionate spouse.

Start today.