How to Court a Guy

Turn your friendship into something more.

Step1

Try being friends with him first. Be patient. Let him get to see you for the great person you are.

Step2

Do things together. Non-threatening date ideas are always fun. Invite him to do things like wash your cars together, go to the park on a Sunday afternoon, hit the gym together. Or do some of the things he likes to do. Don't monopolize his time.

Step3

Let him know he is appreciated, leave love notes or love letters in his wallet, suit jacket, pinned to his fridge.

Step4

Don't stalk him but call and leave him a voice message when you know he will least expect it just to let him you you were thinking about him.

Step5

Be funny and approachable. Let him know he can be himself and talk to you about anything. Not every conversation has to about something serious, let him see your humorous side.