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The Slow And Sexy Kiss

The kiss is a stamp of your love. It is a way of showing your love, your care, and your affections to your partner. While you kiss the tension in your lip should neither be overtly tight or too loose. If it is too loose, it will look frivolous and lazy and if you are too tight it could sense your nervousness and self consciousness.

In a humorous note, kissing is like posting an application at the top for the position at the base. Don’t look at kissing as a route towards excellent sex. Kissing by itself is an act of pleasure which may or may not lead to sex.

Let's look at the basic kiss: See that your lips are moist. You need to get your lips wet by running your tongue once over them before you kiss. Stand close to your partner. As your lips get closer, incline your head slightly to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. See the direction in which your partner is tilting her head and you can tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Ideally your nose should touch her cheek as your lips make contact.

When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open up. Open your mouth slightly and place your lips gently over her lips. Move your lips in a slow circular motion or just leave them still and suck the lower lips gently and succulently.

Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. When you close your eyes you are concentrating on the pleasure of being intimate with your partner’s lips. You can look directly at her eyes as you kiss or break the kiss, but the process of kiss should be savored with closed eyes as you ‘feel’ the pleasurable sensations with your eyes closed.

While kissing, you can put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other against the middle of their back. You can cup her face in your hands, put them around their waist, put them around your partner’s neck, hold her upper or lower arms or run your fingers through her hair.

If you are nervous about the first kiss and would like to go for a ‘care for you a lot’ or ‘miss you’ kiss rather than the erotic kiss, then you can go for the ‘closed kisses’. Here instead of opening your lips, you keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know that you respect her boundaries but still you love her and feel that she is one special person in your life.

In the French kiss, the tongue has a more considerable role, than the lips which is why you part your lips slightly. Once you have started kissing, you should slip your tongue in hers or vice versa. Don’t let your tongue go limp but play it around hers or playfully her tongue out with yours. Push her tongue back into yours and so on. Tongue wrestle playfully. Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of hers. Repeat her actions if she moves her tongue differently. Play tango with her tongue. If she flicks her tongue over yours, or if she thrusts her tongue inside your mouth, repeat the same action.

The romantic kiss: When your lips meet, keep them parted slightly and press gently against your partner’s lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so that your nose does not get in the way. The next step is intention. Give a slight peck on the lips and move away. Don’t move in haste, drift away slowly all the while holding her hands and look deep into her eyes.

The passionate kiss: If it is a more intimate kiss, then linger your lips around hers for a while. Then suck the upper lip and the lower lip. Again the intensity of the kiss should be decided by your comfort level. Having tested her lips, you can explore further-just lick them together and slightly caress the areas around her mouth or as the sexologists call it, oral region. The kiss value can be enhanced by devouring a chocolate or any other succulent fruit. Keep a piece of chocolate in your mouth and keep on transferring it to her mouth and back again till the chocolate melts and you are madly sucking each other’s tongue.

The perfect kiss: The perfect kiss starts out slowly and picks up as you become involved. A good kiss will flow, it does not stand and it does not end abruptly. Each peck has to be relished and enjoyed. Each kiss should be gentle and easy. Caress her face or give a gentle hug. It will be one of the pleasurable experiences you will have. Lean over to smell your partner’s hair. The moment the tip of your nose touches her hair, kiss your partner’s head. Gently go to the ear. Nibble the rim of the ear with your lips and breathe gently. Purr in her ears. Utter sexy sweet nothings. Switch to the neck. Plunge into the nape and gently bite the skin there. With a series of little bites, make your way to the corner of the lips. Lift your lips slightly away and zero in.

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Of course I cannot do all the HTML/CSS coding behind the layout (and I'm glad I have somebody to do it for me) and since everything has been hectic the past couple of weeks, the renovation of my blog has been put on hold but it looks good (from my POV anyways.). He says that the blog still needs more tweaking and more articles for it to become profitable. With his help, I think we can pull it off.

Till then.

Simple Romance Tips For Guys - Win Her Heart All Over Again

When it comes to affairs of the heart, one of the most common questions that men and women ask is, how can I be more romantic?

Women adore romance and the smart man knows that even the most masculine of males will benefit from being romantic every now and then. There's nothing that turns a woman on more than a macho man with a flair for romance. Even simple gestures like cooking a romantic dinner, surprising her with flowers or taking the time in your busy day to show her some appreciation are enough to touch her heart.

This list offers some suggestions on how men can be romantic towards their partners without that much effort.

(1) Be thoughtful every day
It could be something as simple as offering her a cup of coffee the moment she wakes up or bringing her a surprise like chocolates or candy when you get home. You could even write her a love note and put it in her bag before she goes to work. All women love romantic surprises, no matter how small.

(2) Make her a toast
Out of the blue, make a toast to her over dinner and tell her something that you adore about her, then drink to it. You don't have to be drinking wine or champagne - a glass of orange juice or water will do. It's the gesture and the message of your toast that counts.

(3) Compile a photo album
Regularly snap photos of your life together, not only of your special moments but your everyday activities as well. Then put them together in a photo album and surprise her. This is something she will enjoy for many years to come. Oh, and remember to catch her best side!

(4) Celebrate all your anniversaries
List down all your special anniversaries together and celebrate each one. Of course, the most important of these are your yearly anniversary and the time you first fell in love. Try to celebrate other anniversaries as well, such as the first time you met or your first kiss. It doesn't have to be lavish. Even a simple card or a hand-written letter will make a great romantic impression.

(5) Have regular physical contact
This does not refer to sex alone but to simple gestures as well, such as kissing her goodbye when you leave for work and when you return at the end of the day. You could volunteer to give her a back rub or massage her feet at the end of a tiring day. The power of touch is a compelling thing, so make it work for you.

(6) Communicate your feelings
Tell your woman about your day, about how you felt about certain things and whether you are feeling stressed or tired. Don't worry, they will not hold that against you. In fact, your partner will appreciate your honesty and it will make them feel like a significant part of your life. They may even make an effort to cheer you up and make you feel better.

(7) Look good for her
It's funny that we sometimes dress up for business meetings or for total strangers but we rarely extend the same courtesy to those who matter the most. Make it a point to look good for your woman and make sure you're wearing her favorite cologne.

Tips To Be A Great Kisser

Sometimes you feel that you are head over heels in love for her. However, sometimes you doubt your feeling. So, how do you kiss someone whom you like, but you are not sure about? The kiss in this situation should be a combination of short but sweet. This is a flirtatious way of showing your affection to her, in a hugging sort of way. Try to hold her hand or put your arms around her when you kiss her. Though you don't French Kiss, make your intentions obvious by opening your mouth slightly during the brief period of intimacy. The kiss should last a good number of 7-8 seconds though anybody would be a fool to count the seconds while kissing. However the point being forth across is that the kissing should not be longer than she expects.

You could have a crush on someone. She is giving you the subtle hints and you can bet on your eyeballs that she feels the same way for you. The kiss of this kind has a lot of romantic suspense element in it. There is a strong attraction towards a person you don't know that well. When you get to kiss her, do not go to the area of French Kissing, but make sure that your kisses are little wet and slurpy. You should begin your kisses with gentle closed mouth pecks and move on to some sweet inviting kisses, sizzling but not yet steamy. Don't involve your tongue. Keep your mouth open during the kiss. You could preferably shower a row of kisses on her. You don't have to just kiss on the lips. You could kiss on her cheeks, and forehead too as an expression of love. But when you are kissing on the lips, make sure that you have your arms around her and your kisses are more on the softer side. Try not to kiss too long, because very soon hormones will go on an over-drive and you will find yourself making love to her. Many a budding relationship have lost their charm or died quickly because of making out too early in the relationship before the individuals really to get to know each other perfectly. Your crush should not feel used, the kiss should be a sweet thing for her to cherish. So end the kiss at the right time before things get hot to handle. You should hang around with your crush after the kiss or jive with her if you have just kissed her before the party.

You like someone as a friend. She is so cute and bubbly, and oh such a caring friend. You just can't wait kissing her but then you don't want to send wrong signals in the group. The choice of kiss you shower on her depends on your chemistry with her. You can either give an innocent peck on her cheek or kiss her with your lips. Use close mouthed kisses. Keep your kisses fun-filled and flirtatious. To banish those stupid speculations, see that you tell her that it is such a fun to be her friend after the kiss is over. A hug after the kiss would underline your friendliness and attachment to her.

Consider that you have just started dating someone. This is not your first date and you have kissed her before. She is no more a crush, the relationship is developing. Make sure that you hold her real close, almost cuddling her in your arms when you kiss her. Begin kissing the same as you used to do in the past. Stroke her hair or hold her hips. You can French kiss her, for the first time now. If this is something that she may not find comfortable, even at this stage then you could for the Canadian version of the French kiss, also called, as Quebec kiss. This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the French kiss with sparse amount of tongue kissing. End the kiss with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead. After the kiss is over, talk to her. Hold her hands and talk about how marvelous the kiss was, and how she made you feel. Talk a little more and then lean toward and give another quick kiss to her lips.

Suppose you are going steady with someone. You are already in a relationship. You have kissed her many a times, have even made out with her. Here is the best part to graduate to variety in kissing and erotica. Explore with your kisses. Experiment the depths of sensuality is the way I would put it. Kissing under mistletoe will always have its sweet charm. Most of the couples forget the element of kissing and smooching and they would bypass that part to indulge in sexual activity. Kissing still reigns as the best part in foreplay, for most women. It is mentally stimulating and soul-enriching for them. Put a lot of passion and fire in your kisses. Be a man and shower her body with wet delicious kisses. When you French kiss, make sure that you tease her with your tongue. Bring a lot of variety in your kisses. Experiment with food. You could nibble on a piece of chocolate and share with your lover. You can take slow sip from the champagne flute and then kiss her. She will gently suck the champagne from your mouth. She should curl her into a tube once the kiss has begun, so that you can suck the entire end of her tongue to get the champagne. This is just one of the sexciting tips in kissing. There are a lot of tips for kissing given in books and online for experimental kisses. Copy them or invent your own!

Keep The Passion Alive In Your Relationship

All couples enter into marriage with the expectation that their passion for each other will endure forever. We believe the statistic that one out of two marriages in the United States ends up in divorce will not somehow apply to us.

All long-term relationships go through a variety of phases. Unless you want to be one of the millions of couples who are stuck in leading dull and exciting lives you must decide to work on giving your marriage the attention it deserves. It is possible to keep the flames of passion alive.

In the beginning, passionate feelings and romantic gestures seemed to flow without much effort. As time goes on, we settle into routines and many couples forget to do the things that keep their passion alive. You have to be proactive. You must make an effort to stay connected. You must make up your mind that you will love your spouse. It is not something that is just going to happen.

If you want to have a passionate relationship then you need to invest your time in your spouse. I do not believe that we forget how to be passionate towards the one we love. We just do not make it our priority.

However, in case I need to jog our memory, I suggest you pull out photographs of when you and your spouse first met. Study your expression. How did you look at him? How did you talk to her? Could you listen to her for hours? Did you comfort him if he was discouraged? Remember how you carried yourself. Remember how you used to drive twenty minutes out of your way to see her for five minutes. Once you have recaptured these memories then make a commitment to live your today's with your spouse in this same manner.

Let me share some more strategies on how you can keep the flames of passion alive:

1) Plan a special day together for just the two of you. Perhaps take a day off work to do so.
2) Be playful. Laugh together.
3) Write a love letter to your spouse. Make it a little unpredictable. Say things you might not ordinarily say.

4) Take walks together. Consider a walk on a moonlit night.
5) Take turns initiating affection so that it does not always fall under the responsibility of the same partner.
6) Go on a picnic.

7) Go to a romantic restaurant from time to time, not always to a family buffet.
8) Have candlelight dinners at home.
9) Watch romantic movies.
10) Go on a weekend getaway.
11) Hold hands.

12) Hold your spouse in such a way that he/she knows you care.
13) Slow dance to music.

14) Send your wife flowers for no other reason than to let her know you love her. (If your wife pays the bills, pay for the flowers at the florist yourself. Do not let the bill come home for her to have to write a check for her own flowers.

You might say, "But Mark, we have children and we are constantly on the go." Here are some strategies you can implement:

1) Make sure the children go to bed at a decent hour so you will have time together alone.
2) If you have teenagers, plan Saturday morning dates when they tend to sleep in.

3) A date does not have to mean dinner and a movie. A date can be anything that gives you an opportunity to concentrate on each other. From my experience, a standard date night does not work well for couples with children.

4) Create a romantic atmosphere in your home. This may be as simple as lighting candles or dimming the lights.
5) Always give your spouse a goodbye hug and kiss before leaving in the morning.

6) When you return home, always greet your spouse first, even though the children will run to the door first.
7) Say, "I love you " often.

8) Save some of your best self each day for your spouse. Do not give them the leftovers.
9) Look at old photographs and reminisce together.

10) Respect your spouse even when you disagree. Never belittle your spouse, whether or not others are around.

If you want good health, you must eat right and exercise. If you want a marriage that embraces passion, you must take the time to enjoy the company of the person you love. I believe that passion can be recaptured and grow to unimaginable dimensions. Decide to be a passionate spouse.

Start today.

"Inspired"

I Think Of You In Everything That I Do
to Be With You What Ever It Takes I'll Do
cause You My Love, You All My Heart Desires
you've Lighten Up My Life Forever I'm Alive

since I Found You My World Seems So Brand New
you've Show Me The Love I Never Knew
your Presence Is What My Whole Life Through
since I Found You My Life Begin So New
now Who Needs A Dream When There Is You
for All Of My Dreams Came True
since I Found You

your Love Shines Bright
through All The Corners Of My Heart
maybe You Are My Dearest Heart
i Give You All I Have My Heart, My Soul, My Life
my Destiny Is You
forever True... I'm So In Love With You

since I Found You My World Seems So Brand New
you've Show Me The Love I Never Knew
your Presence Is What My Whole Life Through
since I Found You My Life Begin So New
now Who Needs A Dream When There Is You
for All Of My Dreams Came True
since I Found You

my Heart Forever True...
in Love With You..

Someone Special

By: Shoaib Knopfler

Have you ever fallen in true love?
Have you ever felt the sweetest pain of love?
Have you ever lost yourself in someone's dream?
Have you ever found yourself helpless in someone's arms?
Have you ever felt that you are nothing without someone?
Have you ever heard your heartbeat calling someone's name?
Have you ever hold someone's hand with so much love?
Have you ever swum in the wave of someone's deepest hair?
Have you ever dived in sea of someone's most beautiful eyes?
Have you ever been kissed with unexplainable feelings?
Have you ever waited anxiously to see someone's smile?
Have you ever held someone in your arms till the morning comes?
Have you ever called someone's name so loudly that echo in hills?
Have you ever counted your uncountable fallen tears for someone?
Have you ever exchanged your heart with someone special?
Have you ever thought of death when someone hurt you?
Have you ever felt the world is nothing if someone doesn't love you?
Have you ever told, "I love you" to someone special?

Still haven't told those three words to someone which is so special?
Hey real lover, just tell it now. Never be so delayed to express your love
Someone special is really wanted to listen these three magical words
Your world will be very special after you listen the same from someone special

Tantric Sex

From the word “Tantra” means "to manifest, to expand, to show and to weave." In this context, sex is thought to expand consciousness and to weave together the polarities of male (represented by the Hindu god, Shiva), and female (embodied by the Hindu goddess, Shakti), into a harmonious whole.

Couples need not adopt the Tantric pantheon in order to benefit from the sexual wisdom of this ancient art. Tantric sexual practices teach us to prolong the act of making love and to utilize potent orgasmic energies more effectively.

Tantra is also health enhancing. "Sexual energy is one of our most powerful energies for creating health," says Christiane Northrup, M.D., author of "Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom."

"By using sexual energy consciously…we can tap into a true source of youth and vitality."

How Is Tantric Sex Unique?

In the West, we sometimes view sex as a source of recreation rather than a means of transformation. The goal may be to reach orgasm rather than to pleasure our lover or to connect with him or her more fully.

This kind of lovemaking, say sex experts, has a distinct beginning and ending, with a climax somewhere in between and an average duration of 10 to 15 minutes. Given that women can take about 20 minutes just to reach full arousal, this type of sexual experience can be deeply unsatisfying.

In the Tantric model, the sexual experience is seen as a dance with no beginning or end. There is no goal, only the present moment of exquisite union. For this reason, lovemaking is meditative, expressive and intimate. Tantra teaches lovers how to extend the peak of their sexual ecstasy so that women and men can experience several orgasms in a single sexual encounter.

Prolonging the Pleasure

The art of prolonging the pleasures of lovemaking without reaching orgasm is described in the Kama Sutra, the Hindu sex manual written in the 4th century, (and available in many bookstores).

"Karezza" is the term used to define a male's practice of pleasuring his partner and prolonging their intercourse by perpetuating his state of climax without actually ejaculating. These so called "dry orgasms", orgasms without ejaculation, are pleasurable, and still allow the sexual act to continue.

The art of Karezza incorporates breathing control, meditation, work with postures, and finger pressure into the sexual act. Though sexually biased in its description as written (remember it was the 4th Century), the original focus of Karezza, prolonging the state of climax for a couple's mutual enjoyment, easily translates to both partners actively participating in learning to prolong their enjoyment before reaching orgasm.

How to Date a Single Mom

A single mom, like any other woman, can be your perfect life partner or a great person to date. But dating a single mom takes a little more understanding and patience than dating other women. Keep in mind the following steps when dating a single mom.

Step1

Evaluate your interest level in this particular woman and your own ability to spend time with children. It is better to decide before asking a woman out if you are capable of the potential commitment dating a single mom can lead to or even if you like kids.

Step2

Focus on the relationship with the woman. You can meet the kids later. This requires flexibility since she needs to make babysitter arrangements or might be willing to have you over only after the kids are in bed for the night.

Step3

Establish open communication about her past, the biological father's current role and your own feelings about the relationship. This may seem uncomfortable, but you are entitled to know necessary information if you are going to be in the picture long term.

Step4

Meet the children when everyone is prepared. Mom knows best what her kids can handle and you must respect this decision. Surprising her by dropping by could be more damaging than appreciated when dating a single mom.

Step5

Parent only when everyone is comfortable and it has been discussed. Being mom's boyfriend does not make you a father figure. Be very clear about what you think your role should be and be respectful about how your girlfriend and her kids view your role.

Step6

Be patient and understanding to everyone's feelings and concerns, including your own. It is better to leave a relationship you are not suited for than to stay for the wrong reasons.

How to Court a Guy

Turn your friendship into something more.

Step1

Try being friends with him first. Be patient. Let him get to see you for the great person you are.

Step2

Do things together. Non-threatening date ideas are always fun. Invite him to do things like wash your cars together, go to the park on a Sunday afternoon, hit the gym together. Or do some of the things he likes to do. Don't monopolize his time.

Step3

Let him know he is appreciated, leave love notes or love letters in his wallet, suit jacket, pinned to his fridge.

Step4

Don't stalk him but call and leave him a voice message when you know he will least expect it just to let him you you were thinking about him.

Step5

Be funny and approachable. Let him know he can be himself and talk to you about anything. Not every conversation has to about something serious, let him see your humorous side.

10 Signs That You're Dating a Commitment-Ready Guy

Are you ready for a relationship that is going to lead somewhere without you being led on? It's time to start weeding out the commitment phobics and put your time and effort into men that are looking for the kind of relationship you want -- one that has a future. If you're interested in getting married, ignore these at your own risk. Here's what to look for:

1. His friends are married

If you are interested in a guy, check out his friends' left hands to see if they have wedding rings on.

Research has show that if his friends are already married, he's more likely to get married.

Research has show that if his friends are already married, he's more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the "party-with-the-boys" phase, that's a bad sign.

2. He's financially secure

Studies show that men who own a home are more marriage-ready. A man who is generally financially stable, and has his ducks in a row, feels marriage is a practical next step for him.

3. He pursues you

The guy who is commitment-ready is going to initiate doing things with you. If you're emailing him and he takes days to email you back, if you have to text him to find out where he is, if you are always calling him, you're chasing a man who's probably not marriage-material.

4. He's willing to wait

Yes, research is telling us what we already know: If a guy gets to know you before getting intimate, he is more likely to commit.

5. He watches DVDs with you when you're sick

Taking care of you when you're sick shows that this guy isn't just in it for the fun and sex. If he wants to be with you in bad times, it's a sign he's in it for the long haul.

6. He gets to know your friends and family

A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He'll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.

7. He says, "we" instead of "me"

When he switches from "me" to "we", that's a sign he's committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, "I", "me", and "my" instead of "we" and "us" in conversations after you've been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode.

8. He's not afraid of compromise

A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way.

A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way. A bull-headed guy who needs everything his way or it's the highway, isn't ready for the compromise that's naturally part of a mature relationship.

9. He doesn't need excuses

Commitment-phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can't be with you on Saturday night, why they didn't call, and why they aren't ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn't need excuses, he just needs you.

10. He likes being in a long-term relationship

Some men like being in a monogamous relationship and some don't. The sooner you realize and accept this the better. If he complains all the time about needing space, treats you like a giant burden instead of a gift, and keeps talking about taking things slow, he's telling you he's not ready for a commitment. On the other hand, if he's done with the party scene, enjoys your "couple time" together, and has a strong sense of family, you've found a commitment-ready guy.